If you need help now
Crisis lines and resources
This site and our messages are not monitored around the clock. These lines are.
Domestic violence
The National Domestic Violence Hotline answers 1-800-799-7233, any time, and can help you find a program near you.
Call 1-800-799-7233Native survivors
The StrongHearts Native Helpline offers advocates who understand tribal communities. Its number is on its website.
StrongHearts Native Helpline
Safety planning
Make a safety plan with an advocate
A safety plan covers where to go, what to take and who to tell. An advocate builds it with you, at your pace.
The National Domestic Violence Hotline has a safety planning guide and advocates who can talk it through. We do not build safety plans, but we can help you reach someone who does.

Leaving this site
Leaving quickly, and keeping a visit private
The Quick exit button at the top of every page takes you to a weather page at once. It does not erase your browser history.
To keep a visit private
- Use a private or incognito window
- Use a phone or computer your partner does not use, such as one at a library
- Clear your history after you visit, if you can
- Tell us on the contact form whether a voicemail, text or email is private for you